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"Hanya karena kamu adalah 'pasangan' seseorang, bukan berarti kamu mesti ngelupain pentingnya 'teman' atau orang-orang disekitar kamu. . ."

Menteri Perhubungan Australia, Anne Hollands, pernah bilang bahwa memiliki kebebasan pribadi itu penting meski kamu lagi dalam status 'pacaran'. Melakukan banyak hal bareng pacar emang seru, tapi kalau sampai kamu misalnya membatalkan latihan tim voli kamu demi bisa pergi nonton bareng pacar atau memilih hang out bareng temen-temen pacar kamu daripada temen-temen kamu, itu berarti kamu udah mulai kehilangan sebagian kebebasan kamu.
Menghabiskan sebagian waktumu bareng pacar bakal bikin kamu menjauh dari teman, atau keluarga.

taken from GIRLFRIEND MAGAZINE.

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1. pacaran=belajar mengenali
2. Pacaran=Belajar Menghormati
3. Pacaran=Semangat
4. Pacaran=Tukar Ilmu
5. Pacaran=Teman Curhat

taken from b'girl Magazine.
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BIG NO NO !!
Tidak akan menjadi masalah jika status pacaran itu membawa pengaruh positif dalam hidup kita. Tapi itu akan menjadi masalah jika pacaran dijadikan ajang untuk melakukan 'sesuatu' di luar aturan. Bagi kebanyakan remaja seumuran kita, making out or free sex are such an usual thing. -__-. Buktinya, lihat disekitar! Pacaran emang seru, kita jadi bisa punya seseorang yang bakal worry kalo kita kenapa-napa dan sayang sama kita, tapi semuanya bakal jadi memprihatinkan kalau status pacaran disalahgunakan, misalnya: cewek dan cowok yang pacaran dan udah ga malu buat mengumbar kemesraan mereka didepan umum, kemesraan yang kaya gimana? You think by yourself lah.(saya GA akan nulis gini kalo kemesraannya masih dalam konteks wajar). Selain pandangan teman-temannya jadi jelek ke mereka yang melakukan itu, orang-orang disekitarnya pun jadi risih. Sorry to say dude, tapi kita ga ngontrak didunia ini.
Dan menurut GIRLFRIEND MAGAZINE yang saya baca :
Pacaran sudah dikatakan tidak sehat jika :
1. menghabiskan waktu dan energi untuk mengurus sang pacar. (they're not a baby, are they?!)
2. mencoba mengubah pacar menjadi seseorang yang lain. (trust me, no one BETTER than yourself. Jika pacar kamu ingin kamu berubah, than he/she doesn't love you for who you are, it's time to find another guy/girl. Or, ask your boyfriend/girlfirend to change you become a superman)
3. meniggalkan teman dan keluarga demi pacar. (agh, we are educated person, so, we won't do that. Are we?!)
4. lips lock or other bitchy stuff jadi kegiatan utama kalau lagi pacaran dan akan lebih parah jika melakukannya didepan umum. (damn, such a whore. Do 'IT' nonpublic please?!)
5. dalam mengambil keputusan didominasi oleh satu pihak saja/selalu meminta izin ke pacar setiap kali kalian ingin pergi atau melakukan sesuatu. (For God sake, bagaimana dengan peran orang tua? is'nt it reasonable if you want to ask permission and you straight to your parents?! ta-da!? or maybe your girl/boy is your new parents hahaha no offence)
6. lebih banyak merasa bete dan stres daripada fun dalam menjalani hubungan. (. . . . . . . -__-")

Jadi, saya memposting isi blog ini tidak untuk memojokan seseorang, ya mungkin sedikit tapi bukan itu yang jadi kesimpulannya. Yang terpenting adalah, "Kita bisa membawa diri dan bertanggung jawab terhadap diri kita sendiri ketika semua hal disekitar kita tidak lagi memiliki harga untuk dijadikan panutan. . ."

No offence ya. Ini hanya pandangan saya saja. Saya bersyukur jika ada yang setuju, dan untuk yang tidak setuju, God bless you guys. We have our human rights for everything.
Thanks to Girlfriend Magazine and b'girl Magazine.

NADHIEZT, OUT.

Got some questions ? I got the answer !

- If you trust someone then one day she/he lies to you. Do you still keep your trust to them?
Well it depend on about what she/he lies to me. Everybody lies sometimes, so maybe I'll give them a change. But, when a lie get worst, then they NOT worth to be the person I give my trust to.

- Are you surrounding by inspiration people in your life?
Yeap, absolutly. First my mom, she's always be my best friend, an awesome mom that you couldn't even imagine. Then my dad and my lil' brother. And my sister, she knows me then I know myself. She's always there when something's getting worst. And some close family, I've learned soooo many things from them. And all of my friends, they all fun to be with, We can act like a fuckin' idiot and it's just cool. I love pass my day with 'em.

- How's your future will look like?
How can you even ask me that? I have never been live at my future's life :p. Well, maybe I will have a husband with a kids, I will living my dream, Work with a large salary. Oh and I'll go to Mekah with my family. How's that?! It would be great future.

- Can you describe your character or behavior changing from a kid into teenager?
Not really, but I'll try. First, when I was a kid, I was like the best moody person ever in the world. I could mad easly, and that was bad. But now, I can more control my feeling of something. I'm more patient now, I have learned how to appreciate things. Well maybe I can say, 'I'm change to be a better part of me'. Oh and I used to be love metal or gothic band, music with hard sound, like slipknot, within temptation, lacuna coil, etc. But I just realize, today I spend my time for hearing a song like Demi Lovato, Craig David, something lke that. But, yeah I still love slipknot with the gank.

- How's your first impression of meeting someone new?
I'm scared. LOL :P. Nawh! I don't have any impression about meeting someone new. Maybe I just have to say, "Hello stranger. . ."

- Tell about your childhood thingy ;p?
My childhood was awesome, even I have to spent my day at my uncle's house cz my parents got their work everyday. In the morning I stayed at his house, then my dad picked me up in the evening when my parents came back from work. It was so sad remembering how rarely I passed my day with my real parents, but I always know, they love me for being work everyday. But it was pretty amazing, so I feel like I have two parents. My uncle and my aunt, they're like my second parents. They treated me like their own daughter. So, I love them, like I love my mom and dad.
My sister said that I am independent girl. Well maybe she's right. When I was like 14th or 15th, there were so many reasons why I have to be like that. I mean, I'm not going to be a spoiled child, not for forever. The point is, my childhood days was absolutly amazing.

- Did you ever think like, "if only my life was not like this. . " ?
I used to think like that, when I was 14th or 15th, a problem that I would never tell to anybody. But now, what?! HELL NO. What can I say? I love my life, who doesn't anyway?! I am not gonna change my life for anyone, for anything.

- What was the last thing that make you the happiest?

:) smiling to someone and I got the return with a wave. Oh and I just passed a lesson of my exam today. Yayy!! :D

You Belong With Me - Taylor Swift

You're on the phone with your girlfriend, she's upset
She's going off about something that you said
'Cause she doesn't get your humor like I do

I'm in the room, it's a typical Tuesday night
I'm listening to the kind of music she doesn't like
And she'll never know your story like I do

But she wears short skirts, I wear T-shirts
She's Cheer Captain and I'm on the bleachers
Dreaming about the day when you wake up and find
That what you're looking for has been here the whole time

If you could see that I'm the one who understands you
Been here all along, so why can't you see?
You, you belong with me, you belong with me

Walking the streets with you and your worn-out jeans
I can't help thinking this is how it ought to be
Laughing on a park bench, thinking to myself
Hey, isn't this easy?

And you've got a smile that could light up this whole town
I haven't seen it in a while since she brought you down
You say you're fine, I know you better than that
Hey, what ya doing with a girl like that?

She wears high heels, I wear sneakers
She's Cheer Captain and I'm on the bleachers
Dreaming about the day when you wake up and find
That what you're looking for has been here the whole time

If you could see that I'm the one who understands you
Been here all along, so why can't you see?
You belong with me

Standing by and waiting at your back door
All this time how could you not know?
Baby, you belong with me, you belong with me

Oh, I remember you driving to my house in the middle of the night
I'm the one who makes you laugh when you know you're 'bout to cry
And I know your favorite songs and you tell me 'bout your dreams
Think I know where you belong, think I know it's with me

Can't you see that I'm the one who understands you?
Been here all along, so why can't you see?
You belong with me

Standing by and waiting at your back door
All this time, how could you not know?
Baby, you belong with me, you belong with me

You belong with me
Have you ever thought just maybe
You belong with me?
You belong with me

If you ask me, Do you have a reason why you love me?

Reasons I Love You:
1) The way you stand by my side
2) When I'm sad, you take the pain away with a joke
3) How you always know what to say when I get mad at you
4) The way you act like a stupid guy but make me laugh
5) The way you're not embarrased to say or do anything in front of me

6) When I'm feeling the worst, you make me feel the happiest
7) The way we play stupid games, but you play anyways
8) How you tell me long stories that have no meaning, but you know I'll listen
9) How you forgive me when I do wrong
10) I love the way you inspire me to be more than I am

11) the way you laugh
12) Your terrific sense of humor
13) How I love to hear your voice.
14) Just being with you feels like I can defy the whole world
15) You're never boring

16) We can talk about everything or nothing--it's always okay with you.
17) The way you know how to bring a smile to my face
18) When you're around, everything's fun.
19) I love your smile...I really do. =)
20) The way I like sharing crazy times with you

21) I love the fact that I wouldn't ever give up on you
22) I like when I'm thinking about you, the only thing I can remember is the time we laugh
together
23) I love the way we glance at each other
25) I love how every time I look at you, you take my breath away

26) I love your sense of humor.
27) I love your spontaneity.
28) I love when we were sharing the music through my headset
29) I love to be mad at you and you will ask me for forgiveness
30) I love reading a text from you


Some people say, "I dont have any reasons why I love you"
Mungkin sebenernya mereka punya, THEY DO HAVE A REASON. WE DO HAVE A REASON FOR EVERYTHING. Tapi mereka bilang kaya gitu mungkin karena terlalu banyak alasan sayang sama orang sampe ga bisa diungkapkan dengan kata-kata.

Take your pen, and get the paper. Write it!
Trust me, you do have a reason why you love someone. Bahkan saya punya alasan yang paling simpel :


"I love you, for being there at your desk at the morning except Sunday."

Nadhiezt. out.

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Masih kuatkah kaki itu menopang badanmu, Kek ?

Seberapa jauh lagi kedua kaki itu harus berjuang


Tetap tersenyum.
Meski kini badanmu tak sekuat saat matahari tertib masa lalu.




Inspired by :
Seorang kakek yang sering saya lihat dijalan pulang menuju rumah dari sekolah.
Dan hari ini, Rabu 28 Juli 2010 ia terlihat sibuk dengan baju plastik yang menutupi tubuhnya karena hujan dengan tangan kiri memegang tongkat.
Harusnya ia duduk santai dengan teh hangat bersama cucu-cucunya ketika masa tua datang menghampiri. Takdirmu, Kek. Dan Tuhan tau apa yang terbaik untukmu.

It just through my mind ..

Kadang saya iri sama temen-temen saya.
Mereka cantik.
Mereka bisa ngedapetin apa yang mereka mau.
They're ok with everyone.
Kadang saya juga ingin punya wajah kaya Kristen Stewart.
Atau kaya Avril Lavigne.
Saya juga mikir kenapa saya ga setajir temen-temen saya.
Kata orang bijak nih ya, "Remaja sekarang tuh harus 3B baru dikatain GAUL".
3B ? What the hell is that ?
Ternyata 3B = Behel , BB , dan Belah tengah (untuk rambut)
Yeah, I don't have all of that. Even I don't want to.
Dan orang bijak itu bilang juga, "Kaya nya jaman sekarang ketinggalan banget kalo ga punya semua itu. For the girls I mean."

Semua hal diluar sana yang ga saya punya , bikin saya banyak berpikir.
Think . Do . Be . POSITIVE (Think positive, Do positive, Be positive)
Itu kata-kata yang saya dapet dari satu majalah yang sering saya baca.
Dan sekarang . . . .

OKAY.
The first thing.
BEHEL ?
Ngapain saya pake behel. Gigi saya udah rapi ko.

The second thing.
BB ?
I'm okay with my Sony Erricson. Saya masih bisa smsan sama teleponan. Jadi kita ga perlu nyusahin ortu buat ngebeliin kita BB kan ? Mening uangnya buat ditabung pergi haji bareng keluarga.

The third thing.
Belah tengah rambut ?
Hahaha HELL NO. I'm prettier with my ponytail. Jadi ga perlu ngikutin gaya orang lain kan buat tampil cantik.

Face it blogger, kalo kita ga coba buat berpikir positif, kita bisa tenggelam sama kata-kata orang lain yang sengaja bikin kita ngedrop.

1. Daripada saya iri sama temen-temen saya yang cantik, kayanya bakal lebih makesense kalo saya iri sama temen-temen saya yang pinter , atau iri sama pribadi mereka yang solehah.

2. Daripada mikirin pengen punya muka kaya Kristen Stewart atau Avril Lavigne, kayanya bakal lebih bermanfaat kalo kita coba buat mempercantik diri sendiri. Mulai dari personality , inner beauty , atau dari sikap dan cara bicara. Bisa juga kita fokus sama bakat-bakat yang kita punya. Show the world pals !

3. Daripada mikirin kenapa saya ga setajir mereka, meningan saya lebih bersyukur sama apa
yang saya punya sekarang. Ga sedikit kan remaja seumuran kita masih ngamen dijalanan atau bahkan mereka ga bisa nikmatin indahnya masa SMA. We're lucky in many ways.


Seperti yang saya bilang, saya sempet iri sama mereka yang punya segalanya.
Tapi sekarang saya bisa buka mata and realize.
Hidup bakal lebih indah kalo kita bisa terima diri kita apa adanya.
And the most important thing is, what you can do to make life more meaningful and useful for ourself and the others.

Daripada kita mikir gimana jadi cantik, meningan kita jadi cewek yang menarik. iya kan ? ;)